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Kalekale, madokotala ankakhulupirira kuti ntchito ndiye maziko a umunthu waumwini ndi zolinga za moyo, ndipo kuchita udokotala ndi ntchito yolemekezeka yokhala ndi malingaliro amphamvu. Komabe, kuchuluka kwa phindu lofunafuna ntchito pachipatalachi komanso momwe ophunzira aku China azachipatala akuika moyo wawo pachiswe koma omwe amapeza zochepa pa mliri wa COVID-19 apangitsa madokotala ena achichepere kukhulupirira kuti machitidwe azachipatala akuwola. Amakhulupirira kuti malingaliro a utumwi ndi chida chogonjetsera madokotala ogonekedwa m'chipatala, njira yowakakamiza kuvomereza mikhalidwe yovuta yogwirira ntchito.

Austin Witt posachedwapa adamaliza ntchito yake yokhazikika ngati dotolo wamkulu pa yunivesite ya Duke. Iye anaona achibale ake akudwala matenda a kuntchito monga mesothelioma pa ntchito ya migodi ya malasha, ndipo ankachita mantha kufunafuna malo abwino ogwirira ntchito chifukwa choopa kubwezera chifukwa chotsutsa ntchito. Witt adawona kampani yayikulu ikuyimba ndipo ine ndidawonekera, koma sanalabadire madera osauka omwe anali kumbuyo kwawo. Monga m'badwo woyamba m'banja lake kupita ku yunivesite, adasankha njira yosiyana ndi makolo ake a migodi ya malasha, koma sanalole kufotokoza ntchito yake ngati 'kuyitana'. Amakhulupirira kuti 'mawuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida chogonjetsera ophunzira - njira yowakakamiza kuvomereza zovuta zogwirira ntchito'.
Ngakhale kuti kukana kwa Witt pa lingaliro la "mankhwala ngati ntchito" kungachokere ku zochitika zake zapadera, si iye yekha amene amalingalira mozama udindo wa ntchito m'miyoyo yathu. Ndi chiwonetsero cha anthu pa "kukhazikika kwa ntchito" komanso kusintha kwa zipatala kupita ku ntchito zamabizinesi, mzimu wodzipereka womwe udabweretsa kukhutitsidwa kwamaganizidwe kwa madokotala ukukulirakulira m'malo ndi malingaliro akuti "ife ndife magiya okha pamagudumu a capitalism". Makamaka kwa ophunzira, iyi ndi ntchito chabe, ndipo zofunika kwambiri pochita udokotala zikutsutsana ndi kukwera kwa malingaliro amoyo wabwinoko.
Ngakhale zomwe zili pamwambazi zikhoza kukhala malingaliro aumwini, zimakhudza kwambiri maphunziro a m'badwo wotsatira wa madokotala ndipo pamapeto pake pa kasamalidwe ka odwala. M'badwo wathu uli ndi mwayi wopititsa patsogolo miyoyo ya madotolo azachipatala podzudzula ndikukwaniritsa njira zachipatala zomwe tazigwirira ntchito molimbika; Koma kukhumudwa kungathenso kutiyesa kusiya ntchito zathu zaukatswiri ndikuyambitsa kusokonezanso kwaumoyo. Kuti tipewe izi, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti ndi mphamvu ziti kunja kwa zamankhwala zomwe zikusintha momwe anthu amaonera ntchito, komanso chifukwa chake mankhwala amatengera izi.

Kuchokera ku mishoni kupita kuntchito?
Mliri wa COVID-19 wayambitsa zokambirana zaku America pakufunika kwa ntchito, koma kusakhutira kwa anthu kudayamba kale mliri wa COVID-19 usanachitike. Derek wochokera ku The Atlantic
Thompson adalemba nkhani mu February 2019, yofotokoza momwe anthu aku America amaonera ntchito kwa pafupifupi zaka zana, kuyambira pa "ntchito" yoyambirira mpaka "ntchito" yapatsogolo pake mpaka "mishoni", ndikuyambitsa "ntchito ism" - ndiye kuti, osankhika ophunzira ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ntchito ndiye "chiyambi cha zomwe munthu akudziwa komanso zolinga za moyo wake".
Thompson amakhulupirira kuti njira iyi yoyeretsera ntchito nthawi zambiri siyenera. Adafotokoza momwe mbadwo wazaka chikwi (wobadwa pakati pa 1981 ndi 1996). Ngakhale kuti makolo a mbadwo wa khanda la khanda amalimbikitsa mbadwo wa zaka chikwi kufunafuna ntchito zokhutiritsa, amalemedwa ndi ngongole zazikulu akamaliza maphunziro awo, ndipo malo ogwira ntchito si abwino, ndi ntchito zosakhazikika. Amakakamizika kugwira ntchito popanda kudziona kuti n’ngopambana, amakhala otopa tsiku lonse, ndipo amadziŵa bwino lomwe kuti ntchitoyo siingabweretsedi mapindu amene akuganiziridwa.
Ntchito yamakampani ya zipatala ikuwoneka kuti yafika podzudzulidwa. Kalekale, zipatala zimayika ndalama zambiri pamaphunziro a udokotala okhalamo, ndipo zipatala ndi madotolo onse adadzipereka kutumikira magulu omwe ali pachiwopsezo. Koma masiku ano, utsogoleri wa zipatala zambiri - ngakhale zomwe zimatchedwa kuti zipatala zopanda phindu - zikuyika patsogolo kupambana kwachuma. Zipatala zina zimaona anthu ogwira ntchito pantchito ngati “ntchito yotsika mtengo yosakumbukira bwino” m’malo moti madokotala azisamalira tsogolo la zamankhwala. Pamene ntchito ya maphunziro ikukhala pansi pa zofunikira zamakampani monga kutulutsidwa msanga ndi mbiri yolipira, mzimu wodzipereka umakhala wosasangalatsa.
Chifukwa cha mliriwu, malingaliro akugwiriridwa ntchito pakati pa ogwira ntchito akulirakulira, ndikupangitsa kuti anthu akhumudwe: pomwe ophunzira amagwira ntchito maola ochulukirapo komanso amakhala ndi zoopsa zambiri, anzawo pazaukadaulo ndi zachuma amatha kugwira ntchito kunyumba ndipo nthawi zambiri amapeza ndalama zambiri pamavuto. Ngakhale maphunziro azachipatala nthawi zonse amatanthauza kuchedwa kwachuma pakukhutira, mliriwu wadzetsa kuchulukirachulukira kwakusalungama: ngati muli ndi ngongole, ndalama zomwe mumapeza sizingangolipira lendi; Mukuwona zithunzi zachilendo za abwenzi "akugwira ntchito kunyumba" pa Instagram, koma muyenera kutenga malo achipinda chosungirako anthu anzako omwe kulibe chifukwa cha COVID-19. Simungakayikire bwanji chilungamo cha malo anu ogwirira ntchito? Ngakhale kuti mliriwu wadutsa, malingaliro a kupanda chilungamowa akadalipo. Madokotala ena okhalamo amakhulupirira kuti kutcha udokotala ntchito ndi 'mezerani kunyada kwanu'.
Malinga ngati mfundo za ntchito zimachokera ku chikhulupiriro chakuti ntchito iyenera kukhala yatanthauzo, ntchito ya madokotala imalonjezabe kupeza chikhutiro chauzimu. Komabe, kwa anthu amene amaona kuti lonjezo limeneli n’lopanda phindu, madokotala ndi okhumudwitsa kwambiri kuposa ntchito zina. Kwa ena ophunzitsidwa, mankhwala ndi dongosolo la "chiwawa" lomwe lingathe kuputa mkwiyo wawo. Amalongosola kupanda chilungamo kofala, kuzunzidwa kwa ophunzitsidwa, ndi malingaliro a aphunzitsi ndi antchito omwe sakufuna kukumana ndi chisalungamo. Kwa iwo, mawu oti 'utumwi' akutanthauza kudzimva kuti ndi wapamwamba kuposa momwe azachipatala sanapambane.
Dokotala wina anafunsa kuti, “Kodi anthu amatanthauza chiyani akamanena kuti mankhwala ndi “mishoni”? M’zaka zake za maphunziro a zachipatala, iye anakhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa cha kusalabadira za ululu wa anthu, kuchitira nkhanza anthu oponderezedwa, ndi chizolowezi chopanga malingaliro oipa kwambiri ponena za odwala. Ali m’chipatala, wodwala m’ndende anafa mwadzidzidzi. Chifukwa cha malamulo, adamangidwa unyolo pabedi ndikudula kulumikizana ndi banja lake. Imfa yake inapangitsa wophunzira zachipatala uyu kukayikira tanthauzo la mankhwala. Adanenanso kuti zomwe timayang'ana kwambiri pazachipatala, osati zowawa, ndipo adati, "Sindikufuna kukhala nawo pautumikiwu.
Chofunika kwambiri, madokotala ambiri omwe amapezekapo amavomereza maganizo a Thompson kuti amatsutsa kugwiritsa ntchito ntchito kuti adziwe zomwe ali. Monga momwe Witt anafotokozera, lingaliro labodza la kupatulika m’mawu akuti ‘utumwi’ limachititsa anthu kukhulupirira kuti ntchito ndiyo mbali yofunika kwambiri ya moyo wawo. Mawuwa samangofooketsa mbali zina zambiri zatanthauzo za moyo, komanso amasonyeza kuti ntchito ikhoza kukhala gwero losakhazikika la kudziwika. Mwachitsanzo, bambo a Witt ndi katswiri wa zamagetsi, ndipo ngakhale kuti amagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri, akhala pa ulova kwa zaka 8 m’zaka 11 zapitazi chifukwa cha kusakhazikika kwa ndalama za boma. Witt anati, “Antchito aku America ndi antchito oiwalika.
Ngakhale ndikuvomereza kuti corporatization ndi gwero la mavuto mu kayendetsedwe ka zaumoyo, tifunikabe kusamalira odwala mkati mwa dongosolo lomwe liripo ndi kulima mbadwo wotsatira wa madokotala. Ngakhale kuti anthu angakane kutengeka ndi ntchito, mosakayikira amayembekezera kupeza madokotala ophunzitsidwa bwino nthaŵi iriyonse pamene iwo kapena mabanja awo akudwala. Ndiye, kodi kuchitira madokotala ngati ntchito kumatanthauza chiyani?

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Pa nthawi ya maphunziro ake okhalamo, Witt ankasamalira wodwala wamng'ono wamkazi. Monga odwala ambiri, chithandizo chake cha inshuwaransi sichikwanira ndipo amadwala matenda osatha ambiri, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti amafunikira kumwa mankhwala angapo. Nthawi zambiri amagonekedwa m'chipatala, ndipo nthawi ino adaloledwa chifukwa cha thrombosis ya m'mapapo ndi m'mapapo mwanga. Anatulutsidwa ndi apixaban wa mwezi umodzi. Witt wawona odwala ambiri omwe akudwala inshuwaransi yosakwanira, motero amakayikira pamene odwala akunena kuti pharmacy adalonjeza kuti adzagwiritsa ntchito makuponi operekedwa ndi makampani opanga mankhwala popanda kusokoneza mankhwala oletsa magazi. M'milungu iwiri yotsatira, adakonza zomuyendera katatu kunja kwa chipatala chomwe adapatsidwa, ndikuyembekeza kuti amuletsa kugonekedwanso m'chipatala.
Komabe, patatha masiku 30 atatulutsidwa, adatumizira Witt kuti apixaban yake yagwiritsidwa ntchito; Pharmacy inamuuza kuti kugula kwina kugulitse $750, zomwe sakanakwanitsa. Mankhwala ena oletsa kukomoka kwa magazi nawonso anali osatheka kugula, motero Witt anamgoneka m’chipatala ndi kum’pempha kuti asinthe n’kuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito warfarin chifukwa ankadziwa kuti akuzengereza. Pamene wodwala anapepesa kaamba ka “vuto” lawo, Witt anayankha kuti, “Chonde musayamikire kaamba ka kuyesa kwanga kukuthandizani.” Ngati pali cholakwika chirichonse, ndi chakuti dongosolo lino lakukhumudwitsani kwambiri kotero kuti sindingathe ngakhale kuchita ntchito yangayanga bwino.
Witt amaona kuchita udokotala ngati ntchito osati ntchito, koma izi sizimachepetsa chidwi chake chofuna kuthandiza odwala. Komabe, kuyankhulana kwanga ndi madokotala opezekapo, atsogoleri a dipatimenti ya maphunziro, ndi madotolo azachipatala asonyeza kuti kuyesayesa kulepheretsa ntchito kuti zisawononge moyo mosadziwa kumawonjezera kukana zofunikira za maphunziro a zachipatala.
Aphunzitsi ambiri adafotokoza za "malingaliro onama" ofala, omwe amakhala ndi kusaleza mtima pazofunikira zamaphunziro. Ophunzira ena ophunzitsidwa bwino satenga nawo mbali pazofunikira zamagulu, ndipo ophunzira nthawi zina amakana kuwoneratu. Ophunzira ena amaumirira kuti kuwafunsa kuti awerenge zambiri za odwala kapena kukonzekera misonkhano kumaphwanya malamulo a nthawi yantchito. Chifukwa choti ophunzira satenga nawo gawo pa maphunziro odzifunira ogonana, aphunzitsi asiyanso kuchita izi. Nthawi zina, aphunzitsi akamakumana ndi vuto la kujomba, akhoza kuchitiridwa mwano. Woyang'anira ntchitoyo anandiuza kuti madokotala ena okhalamo akuwoneka kuti akuganiza kuti kusapita kwawo kokayendera odwala kunja si nkhani yaikulu. Iye anati: “Ndikanakhala ine, ndikanadabwa kwambiri, koma iwo amaganiza kuti si nkhani ya makhalidwe abwino kapena kuphonya mwayi wophunzira.
Ngakhale aphunzitsi ambiri amazindikira kuti zikhalidwe zikusintha, ndi ochepa omwe ali okonzeka kupereka ndemanga pagulu. Anthu ambiri amafuna kuti mayina awo enieni abisike. Anthu ambiri amada nkhawa kuti achita chinyengo chomwe chimaperekedwa ku mibadwomibadwo - zomwe akatswiri a chikhalidwe cha anthu amatcha 'ana amakono' - pokhulupirira kuti maphunziro awo ndi apamwamba kuposa a m'badwo wotsatira. Komabe, ngakhale kuli kwakuti kuvomereza kuti ophunzitsidwa angazindikire malire ofunikira amene mbadwo wam’mbuyo unalephera kuwamvetsetsa, palinso lingaliro lotsutsa lakuti kusintha kwa kaganizidwe kameneko kumaika chiwopsezo ku makhalidwe abwino a akatswiri. Mtsogoleri wa pakoleji ina ya zamaphunziro anafotokoza mmene ophunzira amaonera zinthu zimene zikuchitika padzikoli. Iye ananena kuti ngakhale pobwerera m’kalasi, ophunzira ena amachitabe zinthu ngati mmene amachitira m’maonekedwe. Anati, "Akufuna kuzimitsa kamera ndikusiya chophimba chilibe kanthu." Amafuna kunena, "Moni, simulinso pa Zoom
Monga wolemba, makamaka m'munda wopanda deta, nkhawa yanga yayikulu ndikuti nditha kusankha zolemba zochititsa chidwi kuti ndikwaniritse zokonda zanga. Koma zimandivuta kuunika mofatsa mutuwu: monga dokotala wa m'badwo wachitatu, ndaona m'kukulira kwanga kuti maganizo a anthu omwe ndimawakonda pa udokotala si ntchito yaikulu monga moyo. Ndikukhulupirirabe kuti ntchito ya udokotala ndi yopatulika. Koma sindikuganiza kuti zovuta zomwe zilipo zikuwonetsa kusadzipereka kapena kuthekera pakati pa ophunzira payekha. Mwachitsanzo, ndikamapita ku chionetsero chathu chapachaka cholembera anthu ofufuza za mtima, nthawi zonse ndimachita chidwi ndi luso ndi luso la ophunzirawo. Komabe, ngakhale zovuta zomwe timakumana nazo ndi zachikhalidwe kuposa zaumwini, funso lidakalipobe: Kodi kusintha kwa malingaliro akuntchito komwe timamva ndi zenizeni?
Funso limeneli ndi lovuta kuyankha. Pambuyo pa mliriwu, zolemba zambiri zofufuza malingaliro a anthu zafotokoza mwatsatanetsatane kutha kwa zilakolako komanso kukwera kwa 'kusiya chete'. Kugona mosabisala "kumatanthauza kukana kudziposa pantchito." Zambiri pamsika wantchito zikuwonetsanso izi. Mwachitsanzo, kafukufuku adawonetsa kuti panthawi ya mliriwu, nthawi yogwira ntchito ya amuna opeza ndalama zambiri komanso ophunzira kwambiri idachepetsedwa, ndipo gululi linali lokonda kugwira ntchito nthawi yayitali kwambiri. Ubale ndi zotsatira zake sizinadziwike Chimodzi mwa zifukwa ndikuti ndizovuta kulanda kusintha kwamalingaliro ndi sayansi.
Mwachitsanzo, kodi’ kusiya ntchito mwakachetechete ‘kumatanthauza chiyani kwa madokotala, ophunzitsidwa ntchito, ndi odwala awo? Kodi ndizosayenera kudziwitsa odwala mwakachetechete usiku kuti lipoti la CT lomwe likuwonetsa zotsatira pa 4 pm lingasonyeze khansa ya metastatic? Ndikuganiza choncho. Kodi kusasamala kumeneku kudzafupikitsa moyo wa odwala? Ndizokayikitsa. Kodi zizolowezi zogwirira ntchito zomwe zachitika panthawi yophunzitsira zingakhudze machitidwe athu azachipatala? Inde ndidzatero. Komabe, poganizira kuti zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakhudza zotsatira zachipatala zimatha kusintha pakapita nthawi, ndizosatheka kumvetsetsa mgwirizano womwe ulipo pakati pa malingaliro apano a ntchito komanso chithandizo chamtsogolo komanso chithandizo chamankhwala.

Kukakamizidwa ndi anzawo
Zolemba zambiri zawonetsa chidwi chathu pa machitidwe a ogwira nawo ntchito. Kafukufuku adawona momwe kuwonjezera wogwira ntchito bwino pakusintha kumakhudzira magwiridwe antchito a osunga ndalama m'sitolo. Chifukwa cha makasitomala nthawi zambiri amasintha kuchoka kumagulu otsika pang'onopang'ono kupita kumagulu ena othamanga, kudziwitsa wogwira ntchito bwino kungayambitse vuto la "kukwera kwaulere": antchito ena akhoza kuchepetsa ntchito yawo. Koma ochita kafukufuku anapeza zosiyana: pamene ogwira ntchito ogwira ntchito zapamwamba akudziwitsidwa, ntchito yabwino ya antchito ena imakhala bwino, koma pokhapokha ngati atha kuona gulu la wogwira ntchitoyo. Kuphatikiza apo, izi zimawonekera kwambiri pakati pa osunga ndalama omwe amadziwa kuti adzagwiranso ntchito ndi wogwira ntchitoyo. Mmodzi mwa ofufuzawo, Enrico Moretti, anandiuza kuti gwero lake likhoza kukhala kukakamizidwa kwa anthu: osunga ndalama amasamala za malingaliro a anzawo ndipo safuna kuyesedwa molakwika chifukwa chaulesi.
Ngakhale ndimakonda kwambiri maphunziro okhazikika, nthawi zambiri ndimadandaula nthawi yonseyi. Panthawiyi, sindingathe kuchita kusiya kukumbukira ndi manyazi zochitika zomwe ndinazemba otsogolera ndikuyesera kupeŵa ntchito. Komabe, panthawi imodzimodziyo, madokotala angapo akuluakulu omwe ndinawafunsa mu lipoti ili anafotokoza momwe miyambo yatsopano yomwe ikugogomezera ubwino waumwini ingasokoneze makhalidwe abwino kwambiri - zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe Moretti adapeza. Mwachitsanzo, wophunzira amavomereza kufunika kwa masiku “aumwini” kapena “athanzi la m’maganizo,” koma akunena kuti chiwopsezo chachikulu chochitira udokotala mosakayikira chidzakweza miyezo yofunsira tchuthi. Anakumbukira kuti adagwira ntchito kwanthawi yayitali m'chipinda cha anthu odwala mwakayakaya kwa munthu yemwe sanadwale, ndipo khalidweli linali lopatsirana, zomwe zinakhudzanso malire ake kuti apemphe tchuthi chake. Ananenanso kuti motsogozedwa ndi anthu ochepa odzikonda, zotsatira zake ndi "kuthamangira pansi".
Anthu ena amakhulupirira kuti talephera kukwaniritsa ziyembekezo za madokotala ophunzitsidwa lerolino m’njira zambiri, ndipo afika ponena kuti, “Tikulepheretsa madokotala achichepere kuzindikira tanthauzo la moyo wawo.” Nthawi ina ndinakayikira maganizo amenewa. Koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi, pang’onopang’ono ndimagwirizana ndi lingaliro limeneli lakuti vuto lalikulu limene tiyenera kulithetsa likufanana ndi funso la “nkhuku yoikira mazira kapena nkhuku zoikira dzira.” Kodi maphunziro azachipatala alibe tanthauzo mpaka momwe anthu amangowaona ngati ntchito? Kapena, mukamawona mankhwala ngati ntchito, imakhala ntchito?

Timatumikira ndani
Nditamufunsa Witt za kusiyana kwa kudzipereka kwake kwa odwala ndi omwe amawona mankhwala ngati ntchito yawo, adandiuza nkhani ya agogo ake. Agogo ake aamuna anali katswiri wamagetsi kum'mawa kwa Tennessee. M'zaka zake za makumi atatu, makina akuluakulu pafakitale yopangira mphamvu komwe amagwira ntchito adaphulika. Wokonza zamagetsi wina anatsekeredwa mkati mwa fakitale, ndipo agogo a Witt anathamangira kumoto mosazengereza kuti amupulumutse. Ngakhale kuti pomalizira pake onse anapulumuka, agogo ake a Witt anakoka utsi wochuluka. Witt sanaganizire kwambiri zomwe agogo ake anachita, koma anatsindika kuti ngati agogo ake atamwalira, zinthu sizikanakhala zosiyana kwambiri pakupanga mphamvu kummawa kwa Tennessee. Kwa kampaniyo, moyo wa agogo ukhoza kuperekedwa nsembe. Malinga ndi maganizo a Witt, agogo ake anathamangira kumoto osati chifukwa chakuti inali ntchito yawo kapena chifukwa chakuti anaitanidwa kuti akhale katswiri wa zamagetsi, koma chifukwa chakuti wina akufunikira thandizo.
Witt nayenso ali ndi maganizo ofanana pa ntchito yake monga dokotala. Iye anati, 'Ngakhale nditagwidwa ndi mphezi, madokotala onse apitirizabe kuchita zinthu zolusa.' Lingaliro laudindo la Witt, monga agogo ake aamuna, silikukhudzana ndi kukhulupirika ku chipatala kapena mikhalidwe yantchito. Mwachitsanzo, iye ananena kuti pali anthu ambiri amene akufunika thandizo pamoto. Iye anati, “Lonjezo langa ndi kwa anthu amenewo, osati ku zipatala zimene zimatipondereza
Kusagwirizana pakati pa kusakhulupirira chipatala kwa Witt ndi kudzipereka kwake kwa odwala kumasonyeza vuto la makhalidwe. Mfundo zachipatala zikuwoneka kuti zikuwonetsa kuwonongeka, makamaka kwa mbadwo womwe udakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zolakwika zadongosolo. Komabe, ngati njira yathu yothanirana ndi zolakwika za dongosolo ndikusamutsa mankhwala kuchokera pachimake kupita ku periphery, ndiye kuti odwala athu angamve zowawa kwambiri. Kale ntchito ya udokotala inali yofunika kuitaya chifukwa moyo wa munthu ndi wofunika kwambiri. Ngakhale dongosolo lathu lasintha chikhalidwe cha ntchito yathu, silinasinthe zofuna za odwala. Kukhulupirira kuti 'masiku ano siabwino ngati akale' kutha kungokhala kukondera kwanthawi zonse. Komabe, kungonyalanyaza malingaliro osasangalatsawa kungayambitsenso zovuta zofananira: kukhulupirira kuti chilichonse m'mbuyomu sichiyenera kusangalala. Sindikuganiza kuti ndi choncho pankhani yachipatala.
Mbadwo wathu unalandira maphunziro kumapeto kwa dongosolo la ntchito ya maola 80, ndipo ena mwa madokotala athu akuluakulu amakhulupirira kuti sitidzakwaniritsa miyezo yawo. Ndimadziwa malingaliro awo chifukwa amawafotokozera momasuka komanso mwachidwi. Kusiyana kwa maubwenzi amasiku ano apakati pa mibadwo yamasiku ano ndikuti zakhala zovuta kukambirana momasuka za zovuta zamaphunziro zomwe timakumana nazo. Kunena zowona, kukhala chete kumeneku ndiko kudandikopa chidwi changa pamutuwu. Ndimamvetsetsa kuti chikhulupiriro cha dokotala pa ntchito yawo ndi chaumwini; Palibe yankho lolondola ngati kuchita udokotala ndi ntchito kapena utumwi. Chimene sindikumvetsa bwino n’chakuti ndinkachita mantha kufotokoza maganizo anga enieni polemba nkhaniyi. Kodi nchifukwa ninji lingaliro lakuti kudzimana koperekedwa ndi ophunzitsidwa ndi madotolo kuli koyenera kukhala koipitsidwa?